"love at first sight - there NO SUCH THING. It's lust at first sight. You don't know that person's personality, habits, likes/dislikes/ etc. etc. and you're in love with him/her? O_o Right! Love is all about accepting someone with their flaws and whatnot which comes along with them."
radvixen
Very many factors act in the situation of falling in love from the first sight. These are our ideals, intuition or “fast logic”, imagination etc. When you fall in love at the first sight you are usually ready and willing to fall in love. Less possibility that it will happen if you are tired, stressed, solving problems in you mind. Of cause the main part in falling in love is given to the appearance, voice, gestures, smell. One person intuitively searches in the other the qualities and the feature to complete him/herself. Of causes beautiful people attract attention the most, but sometimes it’s wrong to fall in love with them easily because those people are experiencing much attention from the people of the other sex all the time and your delightful reaction may simply have no answers
Some people claim that it happened to them and it was like you raise your head, meet those eyes and tell yourself “It is He/She!”. Psychologists say that love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. In some case we won’t even notice those charming eyes in another they can make a lasting impression on as. Also they say that it takes about 30 seconds to fall in love or precisely speaking to estimate whether the person is worth to fall in love with. By the way psychologists claim that men fall in love first.
But if you suddenly fall in love with quiet unknown person and see that it’s mutual that may mean even that mother-nature has chosen a partner that genetically suits you a lot. In this case it is like “aha, match!” when someone happens to fill up all the necessary categories like “tall, blond, blue-eyed, looks good, has a style and nice manners, likes me”.
So i want a wide range of opinon from you guys about this?What you say?Do you belive in love at first sight? Why thats possible? Why its impossible?
9 comments:
I've been quoted O_O hahaha. wooo this is cool.
anyways nice um entry.. very logical... keep bloggin' :)
I have experienced a girl who fell in love at first voice ;p
have you heard of body chemistry?
foniboki - im jus wondering... how cud neone fall in love at first voice. u'll be falling in love with the voice.. not the person right?
something similar happnd to me few weeks ago, i heard this person's voice and right at that moment i fell in love with that person's voice.. n wanted to talk to that person once again... dat doesn't mean im in love with that person right? =|
dont mind me im just thinking out loud hehe...
if thats like that most of us ll b gay n lez right...guys too like alirameex voice..hehe..its not fallin love with him dho..
i dun believe in love at first sight,dun think its really'love'..its really important to kno abt that person to love him /her.maybe seein sumone for the 1st time may help to like him/her...n wud like to find mo abt her/him like gettin email ads,fone no.s:Phehehe...dho xef
agreed!
its not love at first sight,
but Lust at first sight.
i dont believe in love at first sight..first of all what is love?love has multiple definitions ...n ppl make their own definition of love ....so i guess then love at first sight depends..if love is stupidity or insanity ..then love at first site is possible ..cuz yaa lol sum ppl fall in love without seeing each other even ..but i wud call it maddness not love ....
Love at first site as the meaning of the phrase wud sound like this..when u see sumone u instantly fall in love ...no matter the person is married,have kids ,o is insane...so this means u fell for his luks ,style or his body art.
Love at first sight is hard to cope with cuz different ppl have diff explanations of love ..so according 2 wut i understand abt love its bogus....just a infatuation ,craziness or yaa yes lust ,desire or yearning to do sumthing desirable with him or her.cheeeeeeeeers dems
thats sumthing i told too..i mean, if u fall in love at first sight, ur falling in love with her looks..sumthin like radvixen has said..im a person who falls in luv with ppl's voices! hehe..
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