Many times we have a preset idea of what should be 'right' and how the conditions should be. Children with their agile mentality are more open for trying different approaches and exploring new angles to what is so familiar to us adults. It is so natural for kids to refuse the concrete boundaries adults so often jail themselves in.

-Sameer-

Thursday, April 12, 2007

LOVE n SEX

Some people(s) opinion, love is not just caring and sharing. Sex is the food for love. Others tries to change there mind and tells, they will definitely get that food but has to wait for a while. It makes to hurt the people whom which decided not to have sex before there marriage. And there are people who promised there self, not to go beyond the limitation.

Personally I think that waiting until marriage is good for their beliefs. I think that people who have waited may have some bad experiences. Not saying all of them, but it will hurt a lot worse when the person you lost your virginity cheats on you. This is the first person you have been really passionate and intimate with, and that to me seems like a deeper loss than other failed relationships. But still I know both are terrible to those who still love their ex. I don't plan on waiting until marriage, but I will wait until I find someone I love.

“sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love.”

Love and Sex are totally different entity. Love is something which will last forever. It’s a feeling. Related to heart. A dedicated, pleasant experience. There will be sometimes in Love relationship you will get lot of pain. But still you will hang on, because you love.

“As you expects ur wife to be a virgin at the time of marriage, the girl will also be expecting you to be new to sex. “

Sex is an action. It’s a pleasure, and for Fun. It’s what you think. Related to mind. A human body is programmed to have SEX. The purpose of a Man & Woman, and the whole human generation depends on this ecstatic, pleasure activity between two people.

When you are denied of sex, you will not feel that bad. But when you are denied of love, you don't get sleep. So Love is more powerful and precious than SEX. You might get a chance to have intercourse with many, but if you didn't gain even a single person to truly love you, any case, then there is no point in Living.

What you say?

11 comments:

foniboki said...
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Anonymous said...

ohh xef xef. haadha bodu confession eh "I don't plan on waiting until marriage, but I will wait until I find someone I love." hekekekek. salhi!

M15+ material inge hama. hekekeke. ;) hus majaa.

baaaaaaaaaaaaii

iecco said...

jeez i duno wat t say to this one...
well hes true anonymous better wait until u find someone u truly love or u might regret it later

Anonymous said...

cool post...

Anonymous said...

i agree, dude. Specially the last paragraph. Nice post.

foniboki said...
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foniboki said...

I just thought I did write something like this... and I found the same words...

http://foniboki.blogspot.com/2006/12/love-sex.html

Unknown said...

this is modified one as u say original is that one..its a mix of readers comments..cheers..

Anonymous said...

SEX b4 marriage is SIN ,so no need to debate about doing it b4, if you are a tru believer and a follower of Quran."Thiyabai meehun ziney kuraa bayeh kamugaa nuvaashey"

Unknown said...

I say yes...and I agree with dems totally...

Anonymous said...

ya thats true xefy,sex before marriage is sin..i agree with it..n u shud wait for ur love to b ur wife...n after that u can do it..heheheh...