Hey sweet heart im going out for a coffee with one of my classmate Nisha tonight. Is it ok?
Girl friend: hmm ok I trust you. Enjoy
Ohh honey you are so sweet.
What you get from above? You can apply this to girl or boy but the message im trying to give you is same. You don’t know about the friend that your bf/gf is going out with. You will say yes but not deep from your heart. It’s about how much he/she understands bf/gf. It’s a matter of understanding each other. No matter how much they trust each other this problem raise from some part. "Trust" there shud be a limit. There are things we have to think about again n again. About the third party. We depend on an outside source to provide our sense of well-being; when our view of life is colored by someone else’s crayon.
If the girl/boy allow there partner to date with other (opposite sex), his/her friends may think negatively which result loss the respect of people around them. Seeing your bf/gf with someone opposite sex (he/she) all alone? What will you feel when you see your gf with other guy? If you are a human being with feeling you will be not ok. What do you think about this matter? Will it be ok?
This article is on a request of some my friend(s). Which happen with them and wanted to share how they felt and they want to tell that it’s not about trust? They trust there partner but still….? So you readers what do think about this matter?
7 comments:
ahem ahemm... hehe
yeah true xefy.. its that i also myt be okay for ma bf to go to cofy wit a gurl but if maybe sum1 like my parnts or a frnd sees it..the impression is nt nice dho.. and i also wud not feel happy..its nt abt trust!!
u did somethn realy good ingay xefy!! nice post!
hmmm...dont think i wud agree on goin both of dem alone 4 a cofy...da cofy wud turn out juz more dan a cofy!!!
thibuneekee ves dhogu vaahakaeh noon..ekani dhemeehun dhaakah rangalheh noon dhooooo o_O
it's completely abt the perception...
we maldivians have a tendency in gossiping....if u see a gf of ur friend with some other guy, u eventually assume either she is cheatin' or she is dumped. the very moment u make up the story...
Sad, but this is the truth....
I think it's all about the trust..ofcox, u wont be happy to send ur gal / boy out with someone whom u dunno....then frankly say it...let him / her know how u feel...
If you think goin' to a coffee ends up in somewhere else, there's no point in being with such a betrayer.
hihama eh nujeheyne dho ekani dhemeehun dhaakah...gf permission dhinas,they wnt feel hapy abt it nd the point of darkangel cums there too
this is one hell of a post my friend cos i have been asking myself that question and i face that all the time, well in my opinion thats not good at all cos as suksex said da cofy wud turn out juz more dan a cofy!!! very true.
kewl post very true! i wudnt want my bf to go out with sum other gurl all alone on a coffee or anythin else for that matter! it just doesnt feel right...but its oki if he goes out with a whole bunch of ppl includin girls...and guys ofcourse!
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