Many times we have a preset idea of what should be 'right' and how the conditions should be. Children with their agile mentality are more open for trying different approaches and exploring new angles to what is so familiar to us adults. It is so natural for kids to refuse the concrete boundaries adults so often jail themselves in.

-Sameer-

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

RELATIONSHIP (starting)

Why do we start a relationship?
Juss To show up?
For a bet?
Juss sake of others (ur friends o family)
o when your really love sumone?
angafulhaakoffa all will say the last...soo.lets take a look at the process.

You see this particular guy/gal..u fell for that particular person.. sumway u started the relationship. Love relationship is more than messanging and late nite phone calls o hangouts together. No matter how hard u r holding hand with ur partner wen the time cums it breaks. There will be times u will face problems..Nites without sleep..Days without answering phone..It effects ur life lots..rite...

Most of us talk about thea bf and gf prob with their closest friend o family member..
"He gets high temper soo quickly.."
"She hangout late and nite and i dont like it"
"He hangout with girls a lot"

Here are some list of complains..which somehow u dont like about them..n share it with sumone close...resulting that they think your bf o gf is soo misunderstandin..the view of ur partner infront of ur friends and family will fade..

So gals and guys..If you fall in love and the two of you live happily ever after, that's great, but don't expect relationships to be like that. Many people get hurt in relationships because one of the people takes it way too seriously.

But

The point is you dont start a relationship till you are mature enough to accept everything that comes with it. If no...DONT CUME UP WITH COMPLAINS...cheeeers

10 comments:

shweetikle said...

*speechless*

.mini said...

start a relationship with a buddy
with someone whu you can continue talking to even though he/she is your guy
then you'll end up complaining and telling him everything and he'll improve it and it'll all be great

communication, thats what is needed to make a relationship work
and yeah, that mature thing is important too!

Anonymous said...

love is explanation less, and it is an excuse for positive, plausible, as well as negative and deviant acts. and if there exists a love, the true meaning is so much confused that a person who is in love lives in a mere delusional world where the lover is never out of the mind thus resulting in the blabbering of his/her name in each and every talk...

yaittey said...

wow, we got a "love guru" in our maldivian blogsphere! i'm proud! :P

Anonymous said...

what !!1.. are u telling me that hat i am in is not love??
i cant define love, but i feels like i am in love and u know what due to an incident that almost happened made me cry, seriously to cry , tears came out of my eyes.
i believe i am in love

MrMaldivian said...

I know I've been in luv. Happend in a skip of a heartbeat. Had lost it due to uncare. Wont let it happn again, so no complains. She's now married but stil wants me, I kyp my distance. Dnt lose som1 who u luv, mite regret rest of ur life...

Thom said...

.mini - i totally disagreee.. get involved with your best friend viyas, wen in a relationship people change... and at the end of the day if it doesnt work out then the friendship is ruined too!

PemPeNeyNo AnEsThEyShiYa said...

i agree with mini here.. commiunicate nukurevenee keevve ba ey hitha aranee.. vaahaka dhakkaigen kantha tha hallu kureveynee dho.. another thing is.. respect, understanding... so an soo.. nice post buddy!!

PemPeNeyNo AnEsThEyShiYa said...

komme relation egga ves complain hunnaane.. e varihama emme reethi ko, emme perfect ko ulhen ulhey bayakavviyas.. complains--- they never vanish...

Faxeal said...

Hey xef Salhi post eh. . :D