ASK THIS QUESTION UR SELF..!!

• Wonder how many of you really ask yourself about the reason of keep on seeing someone you don’t care at all?? Or why you keep on seeing someone you don’t really want t be with just that you don’t want to hurt his/her feeling, cox at the end this would really lead both of you into trouble. Do you seriously consider the question -- "Is he/she the one for you?


• If relationships are failing at such a rate, why did these people get together in the first place?


• Many of you have excuses like: ‘he/she has changed since you met’, ‘we just grew apart’; ‘the love just disappeared from the relationship’; ‘we weren't compatible’; ‘financial troubles got in our way’; ‘we weren't communicating anymore’; ‘he/she was unfaithful and cheated on you’. But still some of you just ignore all problems and continue the relationship. Why do you wanna ruin your future; when you know all of this??


• The bad side of this is most you get married, commit to a relationship, have children and then only realize or decide that he/she is not the one for you. Then, that would be too late. It would not only affect both of you, even it would affect your children as well as your family too.


• If one is unhappy of the relationship, I don’t really think that relationship would work. Cox it would again affect your children.


• Wonder why we keep on ignoring all the problems?? Also why do we keep on having relationship when we know deep down that he/she is not the one??


• Guess if you want your relationship to be successful you got to find someone compatible. You must connect on many levels with you partner then problems will surely be less.

Well all above is just my point of view, so please don’t take it too personally.

-shattered dreams-