There is no correct answer to this because the only person who can control the emotions going on inside of your body is you and sometimes even then you can not be in control. Every teenager has probably heard the cliche, "These are the best years of your life." Too many of them use it as their philosophy for life. By falling in love ( not abt side cutx.) with sumone makes us miss sum thing. Specially gals. Sometimes Boys too. Its like you wont do such things that makes your bf get pissoff , and in order to make him happy you have to leave thing(s) u want n like. He mite not like you going to coffee, he mite not like to see you hangin out with guy freinds no matter they r ur classmates. So in order to see the smile face from your bf you have to get rid of those things. Am I rite gals?? Im not telling that the guy is doing the wrong thing, but its too way fast to be stop by sumone?I know what it is like to be in love at just the tender age of 14,15,16,17 and to feel as if you are in the right and that no-one else knows what is "right" for you.Thinking of this experience, I think that it was a good memory to have as well as a difficult one to feel. The reason why I do not say that this is "bad" is because I think that "bad" is a word that would express a relationship as a mistake, which in my eyes, I do not. (Although many might disagree.) Why should fond memories of this relationship be overtaken by hurtfall ones? Why put yourself through the hurt and upset of thinking that the time you spent with that person was wasted? It is not as if you've done something against the law. You've just fallen for a guy or girl who may not have the respect that you know for a fact you deserve. One thing to be noted "just because you heart stops doesnt mean that you love them", I think that love is something really deep and that there has to be a real connection between two people. It's more than making out, sex, or someone that is hot.
Pheeew..Long one dho. ok i will be continuing this tomm..Its been so long witout bloggin n wen i cum up with this topic juss cudnt hold it.hehe.Still other half is there, n till then cheeers all
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yeah its a bad idea to fall in love in young ages. i know a lots of friends who are suffering, especially girls who has no hopes of living..luckily i am still alive i guess...
your wrong...there are ppl with different thinkin and all,Usually bf's are okay with thir gurls goin on to coffee with her guy friends..
Im sure this wud only be agreed jx cx the guy trusts the gurl bt not the certain guy friends she has...
And xef u agreed with me on this,u cant say its not true...bt ur opinions are changin,the way you look thru stuff are changing...jx wanted to let you knw since ive knwn you for more then a year or so...and wat ur opinions are going off to is nuthin that matches you :-P
Well, it's not WRONG to fall in love coz that's something one doesn't have control over.
But having GF/BF at young ages is not a good thing I guess. Wait at least till u finish A/Level... coz then u'll have an idea of what's right n what's wrong. You'd make less mistakes than u do when u get into a relationship at a younger age.
is there a age fixed around here to fal inlove..??i dnt thnk so..u may fal inlove at any age..there ar times whr ppl fal inlove wit de wrng person,get hurt..& as a result sometimes ppl commit suicide..datz jss crazy..its nt end of de world..those of dem dnt knw hw to deal wit it..no worries for surely ull b meeting ur mr/ms right..
& abt involvin in a relationship..i thnk its fine after ur O levels..its nt tru dat if u get involvd in one before ur A levels..u ar gona make mistakes..coz u dnt knw whts right or wrong.c'mon..u jss dnt knw it..u hv to face thngs nd learn to solve ur own problemx..im sure if u get him/her who understandz.cares nd truly loves yu..surely yu wil hv a great life!
those of who get hurt mostly ar ppl who fal inlove for their looks..they dnt knw it..bt its de damn truth..usualy guyz wnt a hooru pari..i mean ppl who get dem & who ar smoothly sharin his life with one of de hooru parees ar ppl who ar lucky!!
if u get hurt..dnt givup..he/she was jss nt the perfect better half for ya..gooodluck guyz..nd beloved!!;)
xeff..v dhigu vejje dho..hehe..hama liyevuny..dhen nueh fohe veyne:P
Totally agreed with you Anonymous.
I have nuthin at all to disagree with you on wat you have commented.
yaaaayy...Atlast people who understands...hehe
umm.. i don't know
hehe.. it differs from person to person
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ehemma i'll say it differs from person to person
ekam rangalhuvaany madu kuriyya dho?
like anonymous buni gothah A levels nimey iru hunnaany kudakoh mature vefa and all
its a topic where we could talk on both sides and all.. so just.. thats what i feel
"cheers!"
cant agree more xefy!
i agree with u abt that love is more than sex n makin out. as for the young age, well, i dun think its under ur control whether u fal in luv or not :S so, wen that hapns, only he or she can decide whther its rite or rong, coz if that person succeeds with the relationship, not most wud blame the SO n say its a bad relationship. that usualy hapns wen the person fails. n since this hapns more often than not, falin in luv at a young age is considered bad by most :S moiz opinion, neway :S
yeah xefrox...cant agree more!!!
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