If you fall in love as a teenager and the two of you live happily ever after, that's great, but don't expect relationships to be like that. Many people get hurt in relationships because one of the people takes it way too seriously. You're young and impressionable. You watch movies that minimize problems and convince you that you need to grow up faster than is good for you.Take things as they are and not what they might be. And don't get ahead of yourself...you have a lot of living left to do.
Well, I would love to say, that you all may think you are in "love"., but it is not "love". To young lovers, you can not truly be in love. You are dating, and it is puppy love. When I thought I was in love, it wasn't love. You have to make sure it is right before you say you "love" someone, to prevent more hurt for yourself. I jumped into the relationship way too quick. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating someone and having a blast and feeling really good around them, but don't actually say you love them till you are mature enough to accept everything that comes with it. That is what is wrong with teens today, they think they are in love with someone, and they have sex with them, and eventually because they gave so much of themselves to someone, the intial breakup will be so much more worse. anyone disagree withme? Having such a strong relationship at such a young age was an experiance that has taught me for the better rather than the worse. Having those feelings taught me that you have to consider over people and to also stand up for yourself. The knowledge I now have (which I didn't have then) of how someone can treat me and why someone may say certain things to me has matured me in such a way that I didn't think was possible. The lesson of love I learned is knowledge that i can pass on. So think of it as an experience and thrive on the knowledge now rather than depress yourself.
PS: No anonymous comments. Write ur name o nick name. About my post(s) this is not regarding anyone life, Its juss My tots, My experience(s). Anyways thanks lots for the feedbacks & comments for part -01- cheeeers you lovly pplz. tc
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hmm so..in my view..ppl dnt get mature as u get older..see the thng is..u hv to face life nd try nd learn stuff inorder to get mature..miharu ves aharunna vure dhuvas meehun aharunna vureh galhi kanthah kurey..so nubuneveyne umurun dhuvas v ma kaa ey mature vany dho..
& yea rattehivaa irah serious vegen meehaa over vegen nuvaane..dats tru..specially galz do this..if u do dis..guyz get bored nd they braekup wit yu in no time..
dhen other vaahaka..baivaru teens eba ulhey dho rattehivegen 3 o 4 yrz vandhen ves..they even face problemx in de relationship bt stil they ar togeda..why?? cn yu say dat they rnt mature..rattehi vegen ulhunyma ekahala kanthakaa face kuran ves ingeynee dho..
adhi ves eba huri many many..hehe ekam kuree comment ah vureh dhigu vedhaane thy ninmaalan..dhigu dho..blll,chaaoo..
its nt anonymous dis time:P
& ppl..tc
& other eh vaahaka:$..ppl mostly see de worse of everythn arnd dem..like..eyna miveni meehaku dheke lobivegen rattehi vefa ulhefa eyna mihen hedhy ey nd dat dat..& eventualy they thnk tht way.."o god..its gona hppn with me too if i get a bf/gf.."
believe me lurrrv is beautiful if yu see nd create it tht way..
fenna haa meehaka rattehi vegen dhuvaakah ves nuvaane..u shud understand de person..u shud knw him/her before u take a decision..ehenve dho myhun rattehi vany..is dis person suitable to be my life partner..??u only knw it if u get close nd knw each other..close doesnt mean 24/7 on top of dat person..dhen mihen gos baivaru liyeveyne like i said b4..hehehe..anywaiz i dnt thnk its bad to get into a relationship after ur O levelz..:D
hmmm...pfff..hehe,i wasnt in lve in ma teen n m glad 4 dat..hehe..so no idea hw its...bt oh yeah i think 2 its not lve..its an attractn of oppste sex..1st its nt lve bt dey keep on datin..jst take it easy n go on slowly n in sme stage dey ll knw if its lve o not..every realtnshps arnt sucfl..dats norml..dats life..u gt hurt n u learn bt dats nt die end..n u dnt hav to b mature to fall o b in lve bt sme r datin at a young age 4 a week n sayn so proudly 'm in lve';nonsense..n dhen most of die tms dey r die 1ce who brke up..so wheres die lve?? wen u say u lve him/her dhen mean it..n if ur nt sure dhen keep quite..instead of sayn n hurtn sme1..na ja so is life..like i say ''life is a game..''
hey nice pst xef..kyp it up..
hmm then keekey bunaanee ves dho... its not rong to fall in love at any age. You can fall in love at any age and u can live with that person for ur full life even. Age doesnt matter. Its the understanding and true love and trust between the couple. IF one of em has a misundertanding or disbelief in the other..it wud always lead to quarrels. Its not regarding their age. Its their maturity or experience in love. Its sometimes have a influence on how much he/she loves the other. OR that he/she dusnt have anyone to love them they are AFRAID to loose them. This happens quite often too. But thats not related to the topic. Anyways its not wrong to fall in love at young age. As i said before age doesnt have anything to do with falling in love. their maturity and blah blah does..(as i mentioned before)
kewl posts xefy! tc buddy!
yeah being in love at early ages is sth which is becoming very popular among the young girls. the main prob with them is that they think tooo much about their boys. i know a girl who is hell suffering from it.. after lsing her bf.. now she is kinda gothic style and u know like trying to kill her self or do such stuffs. i am really sad for her..
Well Well Well My opinion may be a lot different from all of you.Cuz im way too old than you guyzz.My opinion is 'young or old if you happen to fall in love too easily then its not love thats called Infatuation'...in a way its better..i mean dont fall in love jsut try to feed back wut u get from your opposite gender...but if you tend to hurt them its not fair.....This topic is very complicating..u cannot judge it by logic...to fall in love at a young age,at first u shud be able to understand whetr u r in love..n my gosh lol nowadays we ourselves are not sure abt it cuz some of us falls in love head over heels with every one you meet.Kommemeehakaa hedhi ehaa varu vanya thats not love ...Love is a very pure emotion you cannot fall it in ten times a year with ten different ppl ...n well if change it to ten years then i guess fine...well evrybody talks about their experience dho...hehehe n Wutever i use to alert u a lot b4 dho Xefy but when only it happens u will realise how true someone was ...dont u feel so...?Anyways pal u have a long life ahead(insha allah i wish so)its just a chapter over ...take a lesson from that n go ahead..the next one you should build better with the bitter or sweet experiences u got..My prayers are always with u ...CHeeeers urs lifelong F.r.i.n.d DEMs
True true. Cool post. And what exactly comes when you're in love? I err am referring to "don't actually say you love them till you are mature enough to accept everything that comes with it"
i agree with ya. cool post.
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but then again.. young or old.. anyone who falls in love with the wrong guy would get their heart broken wont they...
kool post.. :)
ya ture i agree with you! cooL post
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