Many times we have a preset idea of what should be 'right' and how the conditions should be. Children with their agile mentality are more open for trying different approaches and exploring new angles to what is so familiar to us adults. It is so natural for kids to refuse the concrete boundaries adults so often jail themselves in.

-Sameer-

Friday, September 29, 2006

SUDDEN CHANGE


Middle kuditha rafu(3 years) ridhu(13 years) Husband

it was 25th september second of ramaxaan.about 4 my phone peep out with a SMS sayin "hey xef roadha kurukohlan online vebala. avas" sent by shifla. So i got online and we was havin a chat sesion..after 15 minutes freinds call me for a ride.So i went off & came after 30 mins and got online.Still shifla was thea.So i startd with a nudge.no reply..after continous nuges and helos thea was no reply..So i went off...

LATER..

About 10:15 i finish my IQM (introduction to quantative method) class and came back to home.i keep the phone silent when m in the class and after finishin i put the ring on.When i took ma phone i saw one new SMS from shifla.it says


"hey did u hear abt our kuditha?she met with a fatal accident 2 day :( things r v serious.She is in ICU...eii ridhu a rafu ge mom"


I tot it was a joke..at first i tot she was kiddin me..at that time one of ma cousin and sisters was thea.I askd them about the accident happen today..they said yes. So i hurried and called shifla.It was not so clear..she was cryin..:S cant even talk properly..kinda strange feelin...then i tried to ask her what heppen and she told me to come. SO i went thea abt 10:30. ....

After knowin the story i wanted to know hows rafu(3 years) and ridhu(13 years) is doin.."rafu mamma hospitaluga ey buneema rovegathee..mihaaru othee nidhifa..and ridhoo vy hospitaluga" said shifla....i was thea the other nite..and i can find the differences from all of em faces and all...it was so burstin...but belive me life isnt always hehe hoho..but its also about hard times and how to cope with those...

"Jus wish dis was a dream" SMS by shifla

No shiff..it really hapnd..face the reality..face the chellenges with full courage with strenth..and keep faith in god... can we eva revind yesterday..answer is a bIG NO..so dont eva think of rewindin..face it.b strong courage others.

And i know even thoh its aunt..its more than aunt for u all...its like the second mother...and i know i cant express anyone how important she is in urs family dho...

Juss pray for her to get well..we still have hope she can walk there are ways dho in todays world...one day (insha allah)

Dem dont loose hope..insha allah u ll c dat one day..and u r the gr8est cousins who can get...she is lucky to have pplz like u in her family...

Before i end this i wud like to share some thin with u all..

(12:03 AM) XefroX:take care of u too ingey

(12:03 AM) DEMY: im trying to

(12:03 AM) DEMY: yaa

(12:03 AM) DEMY: just trying to understand god better

(12:04 AM) DEMY: as this is part of our lessons dho

(12:04 AM) DEMY: its hama like a death in our family

(12:04 AM) DEMY: ehaa ves hiddhathi

(12:04 AM) XefroX: sudden change

(12:04 AM) DEMY: bt we have to accept it dho

(12:05 AM) DEMY: cant tell anyone how important she is in our life dho

(12:05 AM) DEMY: yaa

(12:05 AM) DEMY: all our enjoyment are connected with her


Dem hope u dont mind..I juss wanna readers to imagin..


6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am also trying to understand god better. Good luck

Dancing in the Rain said...

Hang in there.Pray to Allah and ask him for patience and courage.Ask him for the protection of you and your loved ones always.
My prayers are with her and everyone involved.

Anonymous said...

thanx xef for ur support during that tragic time ..u were a real pal we all highlight that..now its a lot better as kudy is doing a bit fine ..and yaa insha allah she will walk ..oneday and will pray for that always..

Anonymous said...

hey thanks for the gr8 comments and the support from the visitors...althouh its not seen i receive ur feedbacks..and well wishes...thank all of u and gos bless u...

dems u r gr8 pal too..i hightlight with bold letters..& ya we all r prayin for her...insha allah she ll walk..cheeers all..

xef

Anonymous said...

Loss changes your life forever it can undermine your hope and even your trust in God. Dare to Trust, Dare to Hope Again compassionately invites you to take time to sort through what you have lost and what you have left.....TC

Anonymous said...

Loss changes your life forever it can undermine your hope and even your trust in God. Dare to Trust, Dare to Hope Again compassionately invites you to take time to sort through what you have lost and what you have left.....Aicha